Risky behavior. Get you some. I highly recommend that, too! But, not like you might think I mean...but, then again...it would depend on what risky means to you, right?
I'm talking risky - daring, venturesome, adventurous, chancy, hit or miss, uncertain risky. I'm not talking about risque behavior, just risky. (Please forgive the missing accent on the "e", mine doesn't seem to want to work today). But, wait a minute!!
Risque - off color, ribald, bawdy, racy, spicy, daring, blue. Hold the press! If you write romance novels or real life stories about real life, genuine people doing real life, genuine things, you're going to have to be risque! I have a couple of sex scenes in my novel-length manuscript, A Decent Woman, and you know what? They were hard to write. I write great romantic scenes, they come easily to me, however, a scene with lovemaking and having sex? (Yes, two different animals!) Not so much! I have two children so I'm not a nun, but when I wrote the lovemaking scenes, my brain was saying, "Oooh, that's too raunchy, Ellie!" or "Too clinical!" My writing had either TMI, had too little detail, or the writing read clinical or unbelievable.
How much is too much? And, I don't mean that in a philosophical way! Literally, how much is too much? Is there an art to writing sex scenes? Is there a right and wrong way?
It depends. No. Yes. Maybe. There seems to be an art to writing a sex scene. Actually, there has to be. I'm off to read some sexy scenes on a frigid winter day, no pun intended :) Anais Nin, here I come and I'm not reading "Fifty Shades of Gray", either. No, thanks. I've read too many bad reviews about the author's writing aka bad writing, and I don't mean bad in the "bad girl" kind of way! I mean bad writing! Sheesh! I'm signing off now :)
Stay warm wherever you are!
Peace and love,